I can remember how excited I would become when mom and dad would announce our annual vacation. I was eager and impatient as I looked forward to the family trip. We always went to either Atlantic Beach, designated for Black people because of segregation, or to visit relatives in Ohio. We did not take extravagant trips or stay in luxury hotels, but my excitement never changed. I was so impatient, enjoying crossing off the days on the calendar until it was time to leave!
Have you ever become impatient? I believe we all have felt impatience in our lives, and we find it extremely hard to wait! It may be an offer for a new job, a first date, an important trip, recovering from illness or other experiences.
Have you ever grown impatient while waiting on God to answer your prayers?
Waiting requires patience, obedience and determination. The will to wait is a gift from God. He gives us the Holy Spirit so that we can walk patiently with him. Sometimes we might feel that he is going to say “no” or “not now.” We have to remember that regardless of the answer, God knows best!
I have received so many blessings in giving time to listen to stories from refugee families about their journeys to America. I sometimes ask how long they had to wait for approval to leave their homes behind and come to another country. Refugee families do not have the privilege to select a country. They are assigned a destination. Their answers may be that it took as long as 13 years. I confessed to a family that I did not think I could endure that experience. They responded that it was patience and prayer. They have blessed me by their example to wait on God when I become impatient.
Is there anything that you are afraid to say to God in prayer?
I shared the refugee example of patience and the fact that their responses included prayer. Their prayers were bold prayers and extremely specific. They wanted to leave trauma, fear and war behind, even if it meant starting a new life in a foreign country. They prayed boldly, in anger and sorrow, and were extremely specific. God answered their prayers, and they are now here after showing patience and courage while waiting on God.
David’s lament in Psalm 13:1: How long, Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me?
James 4:2 tells us that we have not because we ask not.
Our prayers should also be persistent as shown in the Parable of The Persistent Widow in Luke Chapter 18.
Pray, Practice, Ponder
Ponder a time when you grew impatient while waiting for God to answer your prayer, or a time when you were hesitant to even utter the cries of your heart aloud to God. What did you learn through that experience about yourself, God and a life of prayer?
Pray...Give...Go.